Just curious.. how long did your cheating spouse stay with their AP

So some of you may know my story already.

Just a quick update, I'm doing muuuuch better and seeing things more clearly once I noticed how much better my environment felt without him in the house. No dark cloud energy, no tension, no screaming at the kids, etc. Unfortunately I will always be connected to him because of our 2 young boys.

My soon to be ex husband and his new "soul mate" have KNOWN each other for one month. He is now moving in with her. She left her fiance of over a year for him. He has no job (apparently looking for one because he'llhave to oay maintenancefor the kids,, but he's been out of the workforce for about 11 years). He's off his antidepressants, I suppose because this new woman is magically making everything better 🤣

He already wanted to introduce them to her and have them stay at her place for their next visit! Rash decisions much? He hasn't even spoken to them AT ALL about this whole damn thing and was planning on doing it at her house. Like dude you think they're going to be comfortable, open and honest with you in a strange woman's house who they know you left their mom for? I talked him out of that at least.. I've been doing all the emotional work and talking my boys through it (haven't said anything nasty about their dad just for added info).

So.. what were the circumstances around your cheating spouse and how long did they last?