Do cis gay girls get called "they"?
I'm trans, bisexual, and I've been stealth a few times. I'm used to passing, even in a baggy hoodie. For over ten years.
Until now. Lately, I've been exploring my lesbian side. And, wearing the same skinny jeans and hoodie I've worn for the last ten years, I've been called "they" several times now.
I hate being called "they". It makes me feel like I've been clocked. It makes me regret revealing I'm trans.
Has aging made me pass less? Are people better at clocking trans folks? Is it the awareness of enbies, so people in these woke circles are playing it safe? It's been driving me crazy.
Have any of you been getting called "they" more lately?