How to go about handling¿

So as the question states, how does one go about first time handling? I strictly didn’t hold my girl at all when I got her. Simply opened the box they put her inside in the pet shop, brought her home, opened the box, placed it in the enclosure and let her leave on her own terms then just removed it, I’ve since fed her twice and she will be fed again on next Wednesday. I just wanna know what the best approach to handling her would be?

Should I let her come to me?

Do I just go in and take her out? (Seems like it would be stressful)

Should I open the enclosure let her leave on her own terms and then pick her up?

Just want to get it right