My therapist kind of s*** shamed me yesterday.

Her exact words “you should have a 90 day rule. Because if you had that you probably wouldn’t have opened your legs to him after seeing the real him in 90 days”.

Fair advice and very true. I have implemented 90 days rules in the past. But I actually love sex just as much as the average person. Waiting is hard for me. We glazed over it. But I’m still a little upset about her wording. I’ve already been beating myself up about situations and she knows that. Now I feel like an even bigger whore. Thanks.

Editing to add: this isn’t solely about the advice itself. I stated it was fair and probably true. This is solely about lack of professionalism. I need a therapist. Not a homegirl.