It's my first birthday no contact...

For the first time, no awkward moments making stuff up during the prayer that they probably won't even say to me on days other than my birthday.

No hassle with planning the food. No greeting random family members my NGrandpa invited just to show off. No trying to hide my real self around my family.

Just a whole, chill day with my partner.

But my NGrandpa kept calling me to go home because he said he ordered dinner and cake for us, and to bring the whole family. He didn't even ask where I was, just expected we'd be there at his beck and call because it's a special occassion.

Does something like this happen to anyone else?